During sorority rush, we came up with quiet signals to communicate without having to out ourselves out to prospective new members. When things were going south during a conversation, we’d make eye contact with another sister and play with our hair –  a bat signal asking for help. Naturally, this bled into the rest of…

I don’t know if we even consider it an unwritten code that you don’t date your ex’s friends or your friend’s exes. I feel like that’s probably actually written somewhere when it comes to explaining to people how they should behave. We give high school students a little bit of a pass because their social…